May 3, 2009

ANONYMOUS

Hey y'all whats good? Well, been working through the weekend so i couldn't reply to some of the comments on my previous post. But let me use this venue to say thank you guys and I will be replying your comments right after i'm done with this.
so, i log on to my blog a couple of minutes ago and i see this comment. An anonymous comment. it was a really long comment or should i say comments since this person came back to reply the people who replied her. Makes sense? Well, i wanted to ignore the comments and i was going to until i came across a part where she said that everyone who left a comment was my "supporters club". Now that part made me go "aww hell no". So anonymous, this one's for you.

First of all and the most important, i don't appreciate you coming over here and insulting my fellow bloggers for stating their opinion. What makes you think that you are the only one speaking your mind? What makes you think that if they disagreed with me, they wouldn't say it out loud? FYI, not everybody is a coward like you.

Secondly, @ "I think you are overeacting, you can respond maturely without being spiteful".
And i suppose you think you were being mature in coming over here and spilling your guts? Well another FYI, if you feel like talking trash don't come over to my blog and do it. open your own. Then maybe I would read it and take you seriously

@ "having personally read the posts referred to, i don't know why one should be termed a 'hater' for making the comments she did regarding them".
First of miss ITK, i didn't call her a hater because of "the comments" she made. Its actually a reciprocal name. so before you take her on as a victim, get your facts straight.

@ "I suppose its difficult for me to accept that she is a voice for victims of sexual abuse"
Whoa whoa whoa. hold your brakes hun. i never said i was a victim of sexual abuse. There's a difference between sexual abuse and molestation. Again, get your facts straight before you yap. And i also never said i was a voice for victims. matter of fact, i was thinking of only myself when i posted that.

@ Nigerian fetish's hair color comment, i can only repeat myself and say, go open your own blog and then put your pic up there. Again, maybe then i will take you seriously

@ "am not being judgemental, i was just trying to be neutrel and basically, i was pretty alarmed at the amount of commenters who chose to insult the 'hater' thereby stoking the fire. I was onlty being Christlike in my approach by simply stating 'let he without sin cast the first stone'. We all tend to pass judgement all the time (rightly or wrongly),and the hypocrisy here was alarming, hence the reason why i chose to be 'the voice of reason' lol!!!"
Hypocracy? Anybody who had any sense in their head will admit that what that girl said was supposed to remain in the 1800's. There's nothing judgemental aboout that. I dare you to say out in the streets that you think it is okay for anyone to say what she said.

@ "Of 'cos Bibi is free to write whatever she wants to write on her blog, and the rest of 'us' have no right to express our true opinions on her posts except we 'stoop to her level of insults' I strongly beg to differ".
Insults? I would love to show you some insults that would apply to you but i listened to Joel Osteen today and i don't want to foul my tongue

Now miss Anonymous, as I have said i have no probs with you speaking your mind but please do not come over here to do it at the expense of other bloggers. Do it on your own blog. Although i have to admit that some of the things you said made some sense but you spoilt them with all the other rubbish you did say. Now that you have gotten the attention you wanted, in response to the comments about my blogger friends and my cuzz, I have just three words for you. GO FUCK YOURSELF. Have a wonderful day *wink*

P.S- this will be the only response you will get from me

42 comments:

BSNC said...

what you know about that..

numero uno

BSNC said...

Thank God you listened to Joel Osteen(one of my fav pastor). The bibi i know for yab you ehn.

leggy said...

lol...i hate people hu just think their opinion is so good and then insult others to make her point...if she had just stated her point and left!

The Nigerian Fetish said...

Hahaha, you know right? Anonymous reminded me that it's time to change my picture.. lol.. wow, that's how you know you doing something right when unknown bastards come out of no where!! Hahaha..

UnderCover07 said...

I had to go back see who dis Anonymous chic was n wat she wrote...and all I can say is dat some people are jobless sha o! See the sermon that the babe was giving...dang.

Bibi biko save ur energy for other things.


PS: Didn't know u went to Uniben, I was there for a year till I moved! Great Uniben!

tis all about me said...

well said girl!!!

:)

Confessions of a London gal said...

Bibi dont play! Lol

scribble,me.free said...

haha...the wonderful wonders of the world wide web

juiceegal said...

Anonymous sure wnt be cmin back here anytime soon.....hahahaha
Well if she does she cn count on the 'supporters club' to entertain her whilst shez here.........

Anonymous said...

*sigh*
i guess its a sin to be an anonymous commneter. I take it that i have been warned. My saying you were overeacting, was because you made it clear you did not like this person. I know that we tend go overboard with our reactions when it comes to persons we do not like as opposed to those we do like.
With regards to 'your supporters club' - i was referring to those who where quick to rain insults, without necessarily understanding why they were doing so.
Regarding The Nigerian Fetish, she took a dig at me, and i took a dig back - fair play.
Truth be told, i did not have a problem with you, i had a problem with certain comments. i think it is slightly unfair that i be insulted when i make comments and when i respond to those insults, i am ganged up against, just because i am 'anonymous'. I'll now proceed to blogs where anonymous comments are welcome.

@ Nigerian Fetish; i can see you took my very candid advise regarding the blonde weave. Good on you!!!

Adaeze said...

I see I missed a bunch of drama?
Damn Bibi, You are fierce. i wish I was as fierce as you. Great talk.
Seriously, this person needs to get a life. Who bothers fighting online, stalking someones blog? lol
It's also really low to use such a serious subject to get at Bibi.

archiwiz said...

Drama! Na wa ohh... I prefer to ignore drama rather than give myself unnecessary headache. Many people like to drink other people's panadol and its up to you to tell them "Go to hell and other places."

Anonymous people are without guts. Well, the ones that say useless things anyway. There's a big difference between hating and giving proper constructive criticism.... Why on earth would you be ashamed that someone pretty much tried to rape you? Was she joking or smoking? Stupid idiocies... That's why Naija needs a campaign to stop idiotic blames that women get for the many randy idiots in our society. Rubbish!

My World said...

Kai!
I tire 4 some people ooo.
Gang? Blond weave?
Abeg,nigerian fetish,dem send dis person 2 u???
The beauty and fun of blogn is alwys spoilt wen people lyk that come around.
As 4 bein bibi's supporters club,why not? If not?
No let this 1 disturb u,chic.

Sweetnothin' said...

she got told....thats all i can say

Original Mgbeke said...

I just went back to read the other post, and comments. Bibi, don't waste your energy on this 'else it may end up in some unncessary back and forth.
Just brush it off your shoulders and keep it moving.

The Nigerian Fetish said...

Ha, ha, ha. Wow, I am also done with this person.

Jayla. said...

damnnnn she got told!

Penelope said...

hahaha...I missed alot sha..
But u have met the expectations of ur name "rambling naija bbe"
Im sure anonymous gets the msg nw.
hehe
x

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

guess i have to read the previous post to understand what happened

RocNaija said...

Luv it.. Absolutely luv it..

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

this one serious oh! I remember when anons used to patrol blogsville causing wahala... kai.

Anyway, my sista, take it easy. Don't let people you don't know and probably wouldn't give a hoot about rile you up. They are free to their opinions, you are free to disregard them.

Take care, ok?

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Wait, did anon try to yap my sista, Nigerian Fetish? Biko, stop it oh! That girl's mother is from Buguma, Buguma people don't joke and as my mama is from Abonema, I would have to get all up in the wahala to support the babe. lol!

The Nigerian Fetish said...

Hahahaha, SolomonSydelle!

Ha you are too funny! I know, I know you have my back, just like we have Bibi's.

Stupid fools who are cowards. At least show your face and be a fool.. Smh.... anyways..

Kudos Bibi.

Anonymous said...

ahhhh,
jus got here and saw this post, what with this new anonymous na, spoiling the moniker for all other nice anons who dnt wanna use deir real name n can't be bothered to cook up monikers, newais bibi u OWNED the babe seriously, i would def wanna have u on ma side in a fight cos i no kuku get power, that being said we shud learn to pass our comments without coming across as antagonistic or hateful, but bibi, this babe didnt deserve a whole post dedicated to her abeg, aint worht it, dis kain ppl shud jus b dirt off ur shlder...take it easy babes...

ur anonymous...

Just...Toluwa said...

tell it!

bob-ij said...

Whoa! Am I the only blogger who hasn't been a victim? I feel bad that people chose to be negative on other people's blogs. I didn't read, but I don't approve dissing other bloggers. Still shocked of this occurrence in our blog world.. :-(

x!

QMoney said...

Bibi,u get time oh!!!
abeg resume back to giving us better gist jare.
u can even block anon comments and let everyone leave a name for starter even if its "ab".lol

OPTIMISTIC_alyzzz said...

hey girl
cant believ you wasted a whole post on that anon.
FYI i am your suppoter, and so what???, i love your blog doesnt that make me your supporter

didnt know u went to ben, i went to ben also.
fun to rememba d ekosodin days.

ShonaVixen said...

Guess i have to read the previous post for me to understand this

Rose said...

From the looks of things...I missed quite a lot...Sorry Honey...just been really busy...Hope you are Okay??

T'is good that you are setting the record straight....Cheers.

Writefreak said...

Aww Bibi...it's ok...i'd say just let the matter rest ok?
Big hugs!

jhazmyn said...

Bibi,

Like Qmoney said...free this mata give us berra gist jare.

Bottom line is, u've let out ur feelings and watever anyone else thinks, its their own opinion but it doesnt change you in anyway...

no give ursef stress over am, abeg

Buttercup said...

nice one, Bibizzle..people need to start learning how to be sensitive and respectful of others' feelings..

Miss FlyHigh - LondonsNaijaQueen said...

well done hunny!!

HRM said...

omG...TKO!
i wouldnt want to be that pulzon o!

Gee said...

it is well bibi!
lol..wsnt able to access ur blog 4 a while now..
ic alot has been going on...
*tension tension*
lol...
it is well..
nothin do u baby!

StandTall-The Activist said...

Sorry for getting so upset. I know how you feel. Let it go, I am sure the person has learnt incredible lessons.

If you recieve any comment that will get you upset again. just delete it pls

Omo Oba said...

i would have to agree with qmoney writefreak, and jhazymn, ignore the coconut and give us berra gist.

Bibi said...

THANK YOU ALLLLL O! una too much

Bibi said...

yes i am going back to my normal blogging.

Bibi said...

thanks for all your comments! preciate it

Garrett said...

Sorry for getting so upset. I know how you feel. Let it go, I am sure the person has learnt incredible lessons. If you recieve any comment that will get you upset again. just delete it pls